Story : When I was puzzled

बाखँचा

जि ज्यो जूबले

जि थौं तस्सकं म्हाइपु गन वने गन वने जुया वल । थुबले हे लाक लुमंसेवल चन्दाचा । गुलिदत नाप मलागु, छुं खबर तक नं मदु । उली तापाम्ह नं जा मखु । अथेसां नापलाय्गु ह्वःता चुमलाना च्वंगु । फोन याय्ला जि वय् धका ? तर मखु, आसे, वयात ला यक्वो लिपा थौं सरप्राइज हे ब्यू वनेका जिं । तुरुन्त वसः पुना स्वस्यें वयाथाय् स्वया वना । मने अनेतने खँ वायेका वना – नाप लाइला मलाइला, नाप मलाना थःहे सरप्राइज्ड जकं जुइला, ल्ह्वनला गंसि जुया च्वनला, मस्तनं म्हपूm हे मखा ज्वी । आकाझाकां परमेश्वर तकं लुमंके वल नाप लाय्मा धका फ्वनेत । हानं मती वल, वं जित छु धाइ ज्वी थौं खनी बले । स्कूलंनिसें नापं ब्वनाम्ह चन्दाचा । निम्हसिया छपाहे तुती, ला व लुसी थें जुया नं आ इहिपा लिपा गुलि तापाना वन । मती खँ वाय्कुं वाय्कुं वयाथाय् थ्यंगु हे मचा ।

वया छेँय् थ्यंका तालं ग्वयातःगु मखनेवं जिगु नुगः कुच्छी थाहां वल । तर व दइला मदइला । घण्टी न्याय्का नं मत मदु खनी । अनायाश चन्दा धका सःते वल जित । वं नं सःते सिमधनी “अय् बेमान, स्वः गुलि लिपा आपुलुखं खने दय्क वःगु” धका झ्यालं दुपिसातं छस्वां कुने थ्यंका पाच्यूवल । निम्हं तस्सकं लयताल । “बेमान, खबर छक याय् म्वाःला जा नय्गु याना वय्त्यना धका ?” धाल । जि न्हिला जक च्वना । अले धया “छंगु ख्वाः स्वय् हथाय् चाःगुलिं तिंन्हुया वयाका” ।

निम्हं तले भुतुली थहां वना । वया मस्त निम्हं, छम्ह अमेरिका व मेम्ह अष्ट्रेलिया वने धुंकल खनी । निम्हत्यपुया जा भतिचा गाइमखु धका मेगु देछुत । जिपिं गफ याना हे च्वना । वया मस्तय् बारे उप्पो खँ ल्हाना च्वन । माँ–बौपिनि थःस्वयां मस्तय् उपो च्यूता जुयाच्वनी ।

जा ताना हल । स्वम्हं नापं जानय्त फय्तुना । जित पाउँसे अचारया बास वःगु ताल । व बासं हे जि जा कुहां वन । तर चन्दाचां जित अचार तया मब्यू । वया लोमन ज्वीका धका मती । वया भातम्ह न्ह्योने दुगुलिं अचार तिं धाय्नं मछाल । सुंक नय् सिधय्का । हानं घौछी गफ याना नं खँल्हाये लुमधं जिमित । अथेसां वयात – आ मस्त नं पिहां वने धुंकुगुलिं फुर्सद दै, यकनं हे जिथाय् जा नय्गु याना वा अले च्वना गफ याय् धका जि कुहां वया । चन्दाचां जित कुनेतक्क तःवल न्हापाया हे चालां । लुखाय् थ्यंका वं मछामछा धाल, “थन फोहर वाँछ्वइगु याःगुलिं तस्सकं हे दुःख जुल । आ झन तांन्वया वःगुलिं पाउँक नवः” । जि झस्स लुमन न्हाच जा नयाबले वया अचार तय् लोमंकल धका अचारया वास कया जा नया च्वनागुला व फोहरया द्वँ पाउँक नवगु खनीका धका सिसातं जिला ज्यो जुल ।

शोभा शाक्य

गुजिबहाः, यल

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(थ्वः बाखँचा मन्तुना मिसा खलः, यलया ग्वसालय् जूगु “मिसा साहित्य गोष्ठी” २०७०-१२-२९ शनिवाःस प्रस्तुत यानागु खः)

Let's Start Campaign Against the Winter

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Election Experience 2013

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Socio-Economic Condition of Newar Single Women of Patan

Women were much respected figure in ancient times. With the change of human life style,
women's status also getting worse. It is a global problem. There are many problems for
women like slave, sati system, discrimination on wage, voting rights, different types of
violence outside and inside the house, etc. Against this, there were many movements,
demonstrations occurred in the world though women's situation is still not good. There is
March 8 to celebrate International Labour Women's Day – this is also a result of women's
movement and declaration of 1910 March 8 International Conference in Copenhagen.

In Nepal, Janjati women's situations are better than Brahman, Chhetri women. Though Nepali
women face the different problems - violence, torture by blaming witch, killing for Dahej and
being a baby girl, harassments, rape, trafficking, child marriage, discriminations etc.

The word 'widow' emerged after the elimination of sati system in Nepal. Presently we address
them as single women (SW). The connotation of single women is living by her or alone in the
life without husband. The concept of using the phrase 'single women' instead of 'widow'
introduced and passed a national declaration by Women in Human Rights, Single Women
Group (WHR).

Read detail in the link below
http://www.socialinclusion.org.np/new/files/Laxmi%20Shova%20Shakya_1365493055dWdc.pdf